Just because we have children, doesn’t mean we are ” A Person who is fully developed” aka Adult. In reality we are just older, wrinklier, grumpier children who can take all sorts of wonderful drugs that make our problems more “livable”. But at our core, we are still the same confused kids. The same children [...]

My best man speech from Toby and Alissa Hamer’s wedding. When Toby asked me to be his best man, I said no. Thinking that my current life situation would not allow me  to deliver what Toby ultimately deserved in a “best man”. But in true form of Toby and I’s relationship (since age 3), he [...]